那女孩爱过我 - 李岗霖

The last chapter

I still remember this day...
The first time I met her...
It was 3 yrs ago on a Friday in 2005...
The place was at Balestier Road...
She have been just discharged and have no place to go...
Actually, I was having fever that day...
It was also raining...
Till now, I know it should not have started at all...
No matter where you are... I will never forget the memories
we once have...
If not for you, I wil never understand a lot of things
pertaining to love, care and share...
What is called "promise, respect, trust and understanding"
If only, I have been more strict and disciplined with myself
Time can only move forward..
I cannot turn back the clock...
This will be the end of the chapter...
I will closed this chapter and
start a new story...
I sincerely pray and hope that
you can always be happy and keep smiling...
Take care of yourself.
All the best to you and your family.
Lastly, no matter what had happened in the past.
I just want to say....
Thank for everything...
God bless...

I love you

Delicious & Delight

Yummy.... today one of my colleagues treat us to good food at
Geylang Lorong 25 area... haha.. the food was so nice...
His wife even came to join us for the dinner... and
he was the one giving the treat...
After the dinner, we went to eat durians... OMG..
Those durians were so delicious and super nice...
So long have not taste such good durian... D24.. keke
I also bought some back for my family...
Guess what.. they finished it all within 2hrs..
Wa lao... never save a few pieces for me...
Anyway, no chance to take the durians pictures and post over here
haha... the smell is still so fresh in my mind...
Want to go back and buy some more...
lalala

Just Nice...

How much love do we need?
How much money do we need?
How many friends do we need?
How many clothes do we need?
How many shoes do we need?
Sometimes... we keep asking ourselves..
Do we need so much things?
When it is ever enough....
A person who love another person too much...
can end up hating a person just as much...
when something goes wrong or because of betrayal
A person can cause harm to another person
if they try too be over protective and it might
cause more harm than good...
Certain things we do not really need more than we
actually need...
When will more be good...
how much more will it be good...
When is less better...
how much less will it be better....
Sometimes... we do not have any answer...
we think too much...
What I know is...
I want it to be just nice...
equally to be distributed....
simple....and happy....

Bubble Milk Tea

Yummy..... This bubble milk tea was nice

but so expensive... haha... $2.40 siah... can buy 2 cups liao...

Got free delivery for a minimum of 20 drink order...

Keke... one of the gals in the company want to drink

so asked around to get min 20 order.. haha...

Cheers

Cooporate Community Games

It was Saturday morning.

The wind was fresh and the scenary was beautiful at Bedok Reservior.

Haha.. with plenty of babes and hunks taking part in the Dragon Boat race..

I was representing my company to take part in the CCG for the running mixed relay.

Our team consists of 3 men and 1 woman.

Don't pray pray wor.. even though the woman is 46 yrs old but she can run like a 26 yrs old siah.

In the end, we came in 3rd place out of 13 companies... haha...

Actually, we thought we came in fourth position but then.. lolx who cares...

Well... we should have gotten 2nd position if only I ran a little bit faster

because I was the 1st runner of the relay team....

Cannot believe I lose out to an "Ang Mo" gal... zzzzz....

Anyway, it was quite fun and enjoyable.

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I also happened to meet one of my Prudential friend. He was one of the

members in the CCG... haha... never thought that I will bumped into him there.

Strange thing is I just happened to search for him in facebook 3 days ago and

on this weekend, I happened to meet him. Glad to see he is doing well

and his sunshine smile is still as charming (with his dimples).

Jones... no matter what, I wish you all the best because I know you can do it...

You are the man.. You are the best... Yeah.... Jiayou wor...

Remember to keep in touch and come out for coffee some day...

All the best to you....

Cheers ^_^

“The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women

Haha... Just come across an article and find it pretty interesting, accurate and amusing.
Here are some of the tips to prevent making similar mistakes when dealing with gals...
You can choose to ignore or do not believe it because some part are a bit lame and bullshit.
LOL... Read on to find out...
Wish all the guys good luck...
Cheers =)

http://www.flirtadvice.com/5/ten-mistakes.html
“The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU ProbablyMake With Women—And What To Do About It...”
Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes..

-By David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”

MISTAKE #1: BeingToo Much Of A “Nice Guy”
Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.

MISTAKE #2: Trying To“Convince Her To Like You"
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just notinterested?
Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently.
Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!
Never, ever, EVER.
You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning".
Think about it.
If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her?
But we all do it.
When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.
Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman's "approval" or "permission".
Another HORRIBLE idea.
Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER.
Don't get me wrong here.
You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you.
But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again.
You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval.
Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...

MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts
How many times have you taken a woman out to a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers, and had her REJECT you for someone who didn't treat her even HALF as well as you did?
If you're like me, then you've had it happen a LOT.
Well guess what?
It's only NATURAL when this happens...
That's right, I said NATURAL.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:
"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection". Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.

MISTAKE #5: Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early InThe Relationship With Her
Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most men make with women is sharing how they "feel" too early on.
Attractive women are rare.
And they get a LOT of attention from men.
Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE
An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translate into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month.
And guess what?
Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
That's right. They have EXPERIENCE.
They know what to expect.
And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates.
This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
Don't do it. Lean back. Relax.
There's a much better way...

MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women
Women are VERY different from men when it comes to ATTRACTION.
You need to accept this fact, and deal with it.
When a man sees a beautiful, young, sexy woman, he INSTANTLY feels a sexual attraction.
But does the same apply for women?
Do women feel sexual attraction to men based mostly on looks? Or is something else going on?
Well, after studying this topic for over five full years now, I can tell you that women usually have their "attraction mechanisms" triggered by things OTHER than looks.
Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around?
Think about it.
Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.
But it's not an accident. You have to LEARN how to do this.
And ANY guy can learn how...

MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age.
And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things.
But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks.
There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
And if you learn what they are and how to use them, YOU can be one of these guys.
YOU DO NOT have to "settle" for a woman just because you aren't rich, tall, or handsome.
Let me say this again: If you know how to use your body language and communication correctly, you can make women feel the same kind of powerful sexual attraction to you that YOU feel when you see a hot, sexy young woman.

MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
Earlier I mentioned that it's a mistake to look to a woman for approval or permission.
Well, another similar tactic that a lot of guys use is GIVING AWAY THEIR POWER to women.
Said differently, guys try to get women to like them by doing whatever the woman wants.
Another bad idea...
Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!

MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women
Now I'm going to blow your mind...
A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking.
Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.
I know, it might be hard to believe. But for example, if you're out on a date with a woman, and you want to kiss her, she knows it.
And if you don't know exactly what to do and exactly HOW to kiss her, and you just sit there looking at her and getting nervous, she won't help!
And this goes for ALL aspects of women and dating...
Approaching a woman, getting her number, asking her out, kissing her, getting physical... everything.
If you don't know what to do in each situation, you will probably screw it up... and LOSE EVERYTHING.
And you KNOW it.
It is VITALLY important that you know EXACTLY how to go from one step to the next with a woman... from the first meeting, all the way to the bedroom.

MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
This is the biggest mistake of all.
This is the mistake that keeps most men from EVER having the kind of success with women that they truly want.
I know, guys don't like to make themselves look weak or helpless. We don't like to ask for help.
Hey, I've been there myself.
Let me tell you a little about me and how I figured out how to be successful with women...
About five years ago I became fed up with the fact that I didn't know how to approach, meet, and get dates with women that I was attracted to.
It frustrated the hell out of me.
One night I was out with a friend, and I saw a woman I wanted to ask out, but I just couldn't get up the nerve to do it. I can still remember that night... right on the spot I made the decision to do whatever it took to learn how to be successful with women and dating.
Well, after a lot of hard work and trying all kinds of crazy things, I finally figured it all out.
I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well.

It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone.
I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.
I've written a book on the topic, and I've done seminars on both coasts of the United States... and taught tens of thousands of men all around the world.